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Song: Nothing But The Blood
Scripture: Genesis 33:1-20
The reconciliation of Jacob and Esau is one of the touching reunions in the Bible. Jacob’s behavior here is a lesson for anyone seeking forgiveness.
Forgiveness should be sought face to face. That takes courage. It shows a willingness to suffer consequences. It also shows confidence in the justice and fairness of the one you’ve wronged.
Expect restitution, not release. Restitution is repayment, and repayment with interest. The flocks which Jacob sent as gifts to Esau were literally, a “blessing” (vs. 11). Jacob was restoring to Esau the blessing he had defrauded him. He did not expect “I’m sorry” to be enough.
Prove your penitence. Jacob did not expect or demand Esau’s forgiveness. Even after all of his gifts, he bowed seven times before his brother. He refused that Esau should deny his presents while at the same time refusing any aid from Esau. Jacob’s parting words to Esau are telling: “Let me find favor in the sight of my lord.” He wanted to remove any reason for bitterness and any cause for suspicion.
Make right, then make way. Esau tried to persuade Jacob to travel with him to Seir. Jacob had had enough bad experiences with relations. He wanted to depart on good terms. Make friends with your enemies and go home. Don’t try to rebuild bridges in a day. Repent, and then give it a rest.
Jason Moore
